Liberated Women!

Today in some societies, a women can walk semi-naked in public, swim topless, patronize bars and clubs, smoke, drink, dance in discos, and have sex with anybody she feels like. She can even serve her boyfriend, like an unpaid prostitute, and be free to murder her unborn baby if she falls pregnant. She can also complete in the business world by using her body to promote commercial commodities. At the end of the day she will be regarded as a truly 'liberated' women!

In Islam, however, liberation of women is far more serious, noble and dignified than just the burning of bras as is done in the so-called permissive societies where the fair sex is regarded as no more than a sex object. Today the west is very quick to condemn Shariah (Islamic Law) which protect women from degradation, especially those regarding modesty of dress, purity of purpose and the intermingling of the sexes at all levels of society.

The liberation of women in Islam is far superior to Western liberation as it allows women to live with respect, dignity and equality in society. Equality does not mean aping and behaving like men or dancing to their carnal tunes; that would be an act of inferiority in the face of one's own femininity. A truly liberated woman always dresses decently and modestly. A true woman will never degrade her body and sell her dignity to the highest bidder. No woman is truly liberated if she is still the slave of her wayward conscience, bodily lust or infidelity.

Thus in Islam, women, whatever their role as mothers, wives, sisters or daughters, command respect and have a constructive role to play in society. The Hijab itself gives an aura of freedom to the womankind, facilitating their movement and protecting them from provocation and wanton greed of the human wolves. "O' Prophet! Say to your wives and daughters and the women of the believers that they let down upon them their over-garments; that they may be known and thus will not be troubled..." Holy Qur'an (33:59)

Modesty and chastity form part of the Islamic faith. The world and all things in it are valuable. But the most valuable thing in the world is a virtuous wife.In Islam, a woman has the right to own property, marry according to her choice, and if the case has gone beyond reconciliation, to divorce her husband. Similarly, she has the right to charge her husband for giving suck to their children, and raising them up. Islam gave her true emancipation long back at a time when the world was seething in darkness and women were treated as mere chattel, by the Romans, the Jews, the Christians, the Arabs and the Hindus.

Who are you really??

Someone once asked me who was I to give out an attitude like that, and my answer to you dear friend is:

i'm a liar because i won't tell you everything. i'm stupid because sometimes i'm wrong. i'm ugly because my face isn't perfect. i'm a whore because i like boys. i'm annoying because i'm not chill enough. i'm a loser because i'm not friends with your group. i use people because i do what's best for me. i'm fake because most of the time i'm happy. i'm weird because i'm not like you. i'm controlling because i get mad sometimes.i'm clingy because i like to be around people. i'm greedy because i like to be satisfied. i'm naive because i'm younger than you. i'm conceited cause i'm proud of who i am. i'm rude because my manners aren't perfect. i'm unappreciative because i don't praise you. don't try to tell me who i am because i already know.

Now that you KNOW who i am....its pretty much crystal clear to you that you're gonna have to deal with it sooner or later....

P.S... So frankly speaking my dear all i gotta say s "Go Blog Yourself!!" miss ya .... hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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Quote of the day: Dont wake a woman up in love. Let her dream, so that she does not weep when she returns to her bitter reality. (MARK TWAIN).

I KNOW some young men who are about to get married but are found to be lacking the basic principals of being in wedlock. The essential skills required to maintain a marriage are important or else it might affect the couples later in life. Identifying a partner is also crucial. If you want a wife who is good in sweeping marry a broom! If you want a wife who is good in cooking then marry a cooker. But if you want a wife for all your life to know your soul, to be your friend, then choose one who is good with threads that can mend you to the end.

If you are one of those just about to tie the knot, try to learn all the basics before marriage. Don't get hooked before you master the essential skills. Talk about marriage with your married friends. One of the ways to learn about marriage is to share your marriage experiences, fears and worries with your close friends. Your friends may first make fun of you but at least they will suggest a few tips that you will surely find helpful. Having second thoughts about getting married is normal, but if the doubts continue, listen to that inner voice.

Learn to separate beauty from love. Most young men fail to learn this fact and end up messing their marriage relationship in future. The golden rule is that seeing beauty in a woman does not mean you love her. Men tend to choose a mate based on good looks.

You can be attracted to a woman's beauty but if in your heart you don't feel the spark that attracted her to you, then it is just desire, not love. Beauty alone does not suffice marriage. One should not think that only beautiful women can be the best candidates for marriage. One of the things that make a woman a good candidate for marriage is her faith and how she masters the family values.

Marriage should be about all-round life fulfillment. Marriage is a bond of love as they say but sometimes love alone isn't enough to ensure the success of a marriage. Feelings do change but first you have to learn to be caring, unselfish and know how to please a woman before you start thinking of walking down the aisle. One of the biggest limitations in marriage is that most women don't know how to enable a man to reach them and most men are not confident enough to tell women what they need. This is why knowing how to talk is so vital.

You should understand that men and women are different and have different desires and tastes. For example men suffer fewer aches and pains than women but women remember things better than men and the discrepancy increases with age. Men should understand that for most women a man's looks are not as important as his social status and wealth. Marrying is hard work, and because women can literally seem like another species, there is a lot that even the most confident man can learn like how to deal with them in a more constructive and successful manner. If she happens to be an early morning person, and you don't wake up till noon can your relationship be saved?

Unless you are already married and well versed on the dynamics of how marriage works, this stuff wouldn't make much sense. You might be surprised to read these kinds of things, especially so when it is written in this format. My goal is not to dispute the existence of a gender gap. There's always been one, and always will be. The point is to indicate how that gap is these days and find the best way to bridge it. Try and see if these can comfort and give you some confidence and then hasten to find your perfect match.

GLOBALIZATION !!

Question: What is the truest definition of Globalization?

Answer: Princess Diana's death.

Question: How come?

Answer: An English princess with an Egyptian boyfriend crashes in a French tunnel, driving a German car with a Dutch engine, driven by a Belgian who was drunk on Scottish whisky, followed closely by Italian Paparazzi, on Japanese motorcycles; treated by an American doctor,using Brazilian medicines. This is sent to you by Omani, using Bill Gates 's technology, and you're probably reading this on your computer, that use Taiwanese chips, and a Korean monitor, assembled by Bangladeshi workers in a Singapore plant, transported by Pakistan lorry-drivers, hijacked by Indonesians, unloaded by Sicilian longshoremen, and trucked to you by Mexican illegals.....



That, my friend, is Globalization!!!!

Marry me, or ELSE!!!!!

Wonder where should I begin, or how should I begin. I've lost someone close almost 3 weeks ago over a car accident and I'm not sure how I should deal with it! I've lost too many close people in the past, and now this..I do thank god at times for having a strong heart to take all this in….Bahia, you are missed terribly, and I wish your parents and family will be strong and have faith that you are in a better place. Ameen!

Furthermore, I tried the new place ''Il Gelato De Burno''. It’s a nice place, I liked the cookie ice cream, though I am no fan of any ice creams. Superman has been off lately, looks like it was that time of the month for him too I guess..lol! but its all good now, he's back to normal Superman which I know.

I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about life, and what are my goals, where am I aiming. A lot of goals I plan on achieving to build my career up and be one of the top 10 or 20 most successful women in the Middle East. Dreams do come true, and I tend to do something about it. Yeah no one said its gonna be easy, but baby steps is the answer.

I had a talk with one of my friends a couple of days ago, about Men and marriage. and all I had to tell her was to wonder what it takes to get the two together? If you're trying to get your boyfriend to make a commitment, I have good news and bad news. The good news is that you can stop trying to manipulate, sweet-talk or pressure him into proposing.

The bad news is that there's nothing you can do to speed up the process. That's not to say it'll never happen. Men fall in love and get married every day. But men have their own biological clocks. When they're ready, you'll know.The Sex and the City gang once compared a marriage-ready man to a taxi: At a certain point in his life, he becomes ready for commitment. His "available" light goes on and the next lady in his life gets the ring. Luckily for us, it's easy to tell the difference between a man who's got the light on and one who's just driving around in the dark….

From Sabrina with Love..........

Quote of the day: Love is fire. But whether it's gonna warm your heart or burn your house down you can never tell. - Jason Jordan

For so long we were friends and yes I always knew what we could do, but so many tears in the rain made things very grey! You said ,That love had come to you. I thought you were not my kind I thought that I could never feel the passion and love that you were feeling. And now that you're far and away I'm sending a letter today...From Sabrina with love, She'd got the lover she is dreaming of. She never found the words to say, but I know that today, she's gonna send her letter to you. From Sabrina with love, she took your picture to the stars above and they told her it is true, she could dare to fall in love with you. So don't make her blue when she writes to you From Sabrina with love....

So maybe the chance for romance is like a train to catch before it's gone and I'll keep on waiting and dreaming, you're strong enough to understand, as long as you're so far away I'm sending a letter each day, From Sabrina with love, she's gotta know what you are thinking of', 'cause every little now and then and again and again I know her heart cries out for you. From Sabrina with love, she never found the words to say, ahh but today......From Sabrina with love, she took your picture to the stars above and they told her it is true. she could dare to fall in love with you, so don't make her blue when she writes to you, from Sabrina with love.....So don't make me blue when I write to you, from Sarina with love..............

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Another random thoughts, another random me.....

So had quite a week last week. My grandmother passed away a week ago, and last wednesday, Nutaila's husband pased away while she was in the states, attending her sister's graduation. (allah yir7amo wiyi'3min ro7o fil janaa).

My god I dont know what I would do if i were in her place. I mean I cant imagine myself after 3 months of marriage, and something unexpected like this would happen. I know I would loose my mind, thats for certain!

Hmmm....what else happened?? Oh I attened the Mr. & Mrs wedding of Rima & Faisal. It was nice, music was great. We enjoyed.

I know alot has happened, I just cant put my head togather for some reason. Oh I bought me a 40 inch Plasma a week back, and Im luvin it!

P.S. Im still pissed @ ya! (maybe thats why I cant write right or think right!!) THANKYOUVERYMUCH.......