Its raining on my pillow...

Have you ever felt like, it's just raining but it's only raining on you? Have you ever woke up and felt like you didn't wanna live today? And have you ever felt like the person you used to be has gone away? If you feel like you're running and there's nowhere for you to hide with the world on your shoulder, you hope that it gets better with time…It's like when it rains and it all falls down on your pillow and there's nobody there to turn to…and you can't get out of it..and you don't know where it will end. Have you ever looked in the mirror and didn't recognize your own face? The days don't seem to get any clearer, you wish you could just fade away. I know what it feels like, when there's no one for you. A friend once told me don't run away from your troubles, open your eyes and realize it's only temporary, It's gonna be ok..thanl you dear friend for opening my eyes to the world!

Pieces of me...

Ever wonder whats it like to live on someone else's shoes other than yours? where would you be by now? how will be? who will you be? will people respect you? are you going to be true to yourself and most of all, true to others? will you be loved? will you be inlove? 'cause at the moment I feel a piece of me is missing and I am not sure where should I search or even start looking!

I feel so lost..

Once upon a friendship..

I miss you old friend, can i hold you? I know its been a long timeold friend do you mind? there was so many things i wish i had said...i ment to love you but i hurt you instead. I've come here now to make amence . Can i sit down beside you? Can we be close again? I miss you old friend!

Have I acheived anything in life???

Ok this might not be perfect Spanish, but the poin is a very close friend asked me if i have acheived something in life that I can actually be proud off, and my answer to him is....

Bueno, yo no estoy seguro por dónde empezar o cómo empezar. pero el pensamiento de la sensación de que he hecho nada hasta ahora en esta vida que pueda ser orgullosos y decir que hice algo, es sólo tourmanting mí! y creo que esto es realmente una cosa muy triste y algo debe hacerse de ella. Es por eso que pensé que tal vez si voy para más estudios i puede hacer una diferencia, pero ¿verdad? y voy a sentirlo? .. no puedo responder a esto hasta que llegue el día ...

Liberated Women!

Today in some societies, a women can walk semi-naked in public, swim topless, patronize bars and clubs, smoke, drink, dance in discos, and have sex with anybody she feels like. She can even serve her boyfriend, like an unpaid prostitute, and be free to murder her unborn baby if she falls pregnant. She can also complete in the business world by using her body to promote commercial commodities. At the end of the day she will be regarded as a truly 'liberated' women!

In Islam, however, liberation of women is far more serious, noble and dignified than just the burning of bras as is done in the so-called permissive societies where the fair sex is regarded as no more than a sex object. Today the west is very quick to condemn Shariah (Islamic Law) which protect women from degradation, especially those regarding modesty of dress, purity of purpose and the intermingling of the sexes at all levels of society.

The liberation of women in Islam is far superior to Western liberation as it allows women to live with respect, dignity and equality in society. Equality does not mean aping and behaving like men or dancing to their carnal tunes; that would be an act of inferiority in the face of one's own femininity. A truly liberated woman always dresses decently and modestly. A true woman will never degrade her body and sell her dignity to the highest bidder. No woman is truly liberated if she is still the slave of her wayward conscience, bodily lust or infidelity.

Thus in Islam, women, whatever their role as mothers, wives, sisters or daughters, command respect and have a constructive role to play in society. The Hijab itself gives an aura of freedom to the womankind, facilitating their movement and protecting them from provocation and wanton greed of the human wolves. "O' Prophet! Say to your wives and daughters and the women of the believers that they let down upon them their over-garments; that they may be known and thus will not be troubled..." Holy Qur'an (33:59)

Modesty and chastity form part of the Islamic faith. The world and all things in it are valuable. But the most valuable thing in the world is a virtuous wife.In Islam, a woman has the right to own property, marry according to her choice, and if the case has gone beyond reconciliation, to divorce her husband. Similarly, she has the right to charge her husband for giving suck to their children, and raising them up. Islam gave her true emancipation long back at a time when the world was seething in darkness and women were treated as mere chattel, by the Romans, the Jews, the Christians, the Arabs and the Hindus.

Who are you really??

Someone once asked me who was I to give out an attitude like that, and my answer to you dear friend is:

i'm a liar because i won't tell you everything. i'm stupid because sometimes i'm wrong. i'm ugly because my face isn't perfect. i'm a whore because i like boys. i'm annoying because i'm not chill enough. i'm a loser because i'm not friends with your group. i use people because i do what's best for me. i'm fake because most of the time i'm happy. i'm weird because i'm not like you. i'm controlling because i get mad sometimes.i'm clingy because i like to be around people. i'm greedy because i like to be satisfied. i'm naive because i'm younger than you. i'm conceited cause i'm proud of who i am. i'm rude because my manners aren't perfect. i'm unappreciative because i don't praise you. don't try to tell me who i am because i already know.

Now that you KNOW who i am....its pretty much crystal clear to you that you're gonna have to deal with it sooner or later....

P.S... So frankly speaking my dear all i gotta say s "Go Blog Yourself!!" miss ya .... hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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Quote of the day: Dont wake a woman up in love. Let her dream, so that she does not weep when she returns to her bitter reality. (MARK TWAIN).

I KNOW some young men who are about to get married but are found to be lacking the basic principals of being in wedlock. The essential skills required to maintain a marriage are important or else it might affect the couples later in life. Identifying a partner is also crucial. If you want a wife who is good in sweeping marry a broom! If you want a wife who is good in cooking then marry a cooker. But if you want a wife for all your life to know your soul, to be your friend, then choose one who is good with threads that can mend you to the end.

If you are one of those just about to tie the knot, try to learn all the basics before marriage. Don't get hooked before you master the essential skills. Talk about marriage with your married friends. One of the ways to learn about marriage is to share your marriage experiences, fears and worries with your close friends. Your friends may first make fun of you but at least they will suggest a few tips that you will surely find helpful. Having second thoughts about getting married is normal, but if the doubts continue, listen to that inner voice.

Learn to separate beauty from love. Most young men fail to learn this fact and end up messing their marriage relationship in future. The golden rule is that seeing beauty in a woman does not mean you love her. Men tend to choose a mate based on good looks.

You can be attracted to a woman's beauty but if in your heart you don't feel the spark that attracted her to you, then it is just desire, not love. Beauty alone does not suffice marriage. One should not think that only beautiful women can be the best candidates for marriage. One of the things that make a woman a good candidate for marriage is her faith and how she masters the family values.

Marriage should be about all-round life fulfillment. Marriage is a bond of love as they say but sometimes love alone isn't enough to ensure the success of a marriage. Feelings do change but first you have to learn to be caring, unselfish and know how to please a woman before you start thinking of walking down the aisle. One of the biggest limitations in marriage is that most women don't know how to enable a man to reach them and most men are not confident enough to tell women what they need. This is why knowing how to talk is so vital.

You should understand that men and women are different and have different desires and tastes. For example men suffer fewer aches and pains than women but women remember things better than men and the discrepancy increases with age. Men should understand that for most women a man's looks are not as important as his social status and wealth. Marrying is hard work, and because women can literally seem like another species, there is a lot that even the most confident man can learn like how to deal with them in a more constructive and successful manner. If she happens to be an early morning person, and you don't wake up till noon can your relationship be saved?

Unless you are already married and well versed on the dynamics of how marriage works, this stuff wouldn't make much sense. You might be surprised to read these kinds of things, especially so when it is written in this format. My goal is not to dispute the existence of a gender gap. There's always been one, and always will be. The point is to indicate how that gap is these days and find the best way to bridge it. Try and see if these can comfort and give you some confidence and then hasten to find your perfect match.